Lovin' Life 24-7 is a quilt of thougts and adventures of my new life in Atlanta. I refuse to be put into one category but you will see pieces and parts of Sookyung in this daily updated blog. Maybe. ;)

Monday, August 28, 2006

Tennis and relationship

U.S. open started today and during the conversation with my friend, i was thinking about the analogy between tennis and relationship.

No matter how good you are in tennis, you cannot win the match when you play double and your partner and you're not a good fit. To make it worse, if both players play by different rules, you really cannot win the match. It's not about who's a better or worse player. Two good playes cannot guarantee to win, either. When you play double, you need to compliment each other's strengthes and weaknesses. You have to be on the same page in terms of enthusiasm, passion, and purpose behind the game. If one person wants to play tennis for fun vs. the other player wants to win the U.S. open, it might be hard to get along. I can easily see one player has to drag another one to the court to practice. It gets old...

It might better to play single until you find a right partner to play double. At the end, it's all about enjoy the game or your life.. it doesn't matter whether you play single or double.
Until I find the right player, I will enjoy playing single and moving forward to my next dream.
Don't forget that people watch more single's game than double in U.S. Open. At least I do. :)

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